主要人物表 .........................................................................................001 **部分 各說各話 1　媽媽——揮不去的夢魘 .............................................................002 2　女兒——美國的破規定——12歲，16歲，21歲 ........................011 3　媽媽——一個溫暖的肩膀 ........................................................021 4　女兒——一心拆散兩人世界 ....................................................032 5　媽媽——上街兜售中國打火機 .................................................043 6　女兒——艾拉與斯蒂文 .............................................................055 7　媽媽——四人創業辦公司 .........................................................064 8　女兒——殘暴和溫柔 .................................................................072 9　媽媽——嘗試跨國貿易 .............................................................082 10　媽媽——在洛杉磯擺地攤 .........................................................090 11　女兒——逼走媽媽的情人 .........................................................099 12　媽媽——遭受FBI沖擊 ..............................................................110 第二部分 各懷心事 1　母女兩人世界 .............................................................................120 2　危險人物進入 .............................................................................133 3　交到了女朋友 ............................................................................................141 4　弄巧成拙傷害母親 ....................................................................................150 5　冷戰僵持局面 ............................................................................................158 6　少女懷春心跳 ............................................................................................166 7　與男生逛店 ................................................................................................174 8　巧擒偷貨賊，出現戒指盒 ..........................................................................182 9　為什么要我再吃苦 ....................................................................................190 10　兩只挨近的刺猬 ........................................................................................199 11　撲朔迷離的愛情 ........................................................................................208 12　**次 ........................................................................................................217 13　崩潰—逃離 ............................................................................................226 14　禍兮福兮 ....................................................................................................235 第三部分 各得其所 1　誤闖太平間 ................................................................................................243 2　情歸之處 ....................................................................................................252 3　推心置腹圓明園 ........................................................................................260 4　誰都有軟肋 ................................................................................................270 5　有一種情叫愛屋及烏 ................................................................................278 6　她的心被牽住 ............................................................................................286 7　小魔王脫魔了 ............................................................................................296 8　他要回美國考大學 ....................................................................................304 9　一種相思　兩處閑愁 ................................................................................313 10　你儂我儂，心已知道靈犀的方向 ..............................................................319 11　回來繼續讀書吧 ........................................................................................325 12　請回母親的戀人 ........................................................................................333 后記 ....................................................................................................................342